Watching The Terminal has sparked a moment of deep reflection – a moment that feels raw and transformative. It’s interesting how a film can hold up a mirror to your own life, and this time, it reflected my relationship with my kids. I realized I’ve been wearing too many hats – strict parent, teacher, boss – and losing sight of something far more precious: being their friend, their dad, their safe harbor of fun, creativity, and magic.
They’re just 5 and 7, still enchanted by Santa Claus and full of wonder. Yet here I am, often too caught up in “parenting mode,” forgetting that they don’t just need guidance; they need joy, laughter, and my full presence. Why am I so caught up in control, in setting rules, in keeping order? Maybe it’s time to loosen the reins and rediscover what it means to be with them instead of just leading them.
The truth is, I don’t even know where to start. Years ago, I had this daily mantra that kept me focused, motivated, and sharp. Back then, I was constantly striving – life was much harder, but I had this fire within, this edge. Things are easier now, but maybe too easy. Comfort has dulled that hunger to keep growing, and it’s led me to settle into a version of myself I don’t fully recognize or want to stay in.
So, I’ve decided to set my alarm for 7:30 a.m. tomorrow. I’ll get up before the kids and try something different. I’m not aiming for perfection, just small, intentional moments – moments where I can show up as the dad they deserve. Little by little, I’ll build on that.
To guide myself, I’m going back to that mantra, the one I used to recite until it became second nature. It’s time to breathe life into those words again, to remind myself what matters most:
I now command my subconscious mind to give me all the energy, creativity, and patience that I need to make this day magnificent for my kids.
They are my best friends – I believe in them, I learn from them, and I respect their choices and decisions.
Whilst being with them, I am totally present. I am guided by the Universe, and I am doing my best with what I have from where I am.
Every moment with my kids is a gift, is magic, is a miracle, and I am grateful beyond measure for being with them, for them, for being the best dad in the world.
I love them, and I am so grateful they are who they are.
Thank you.
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